Accept

“Accept- then act. Whatever the present moment contains, accept it as if you had chosen it. Always work with it, not against.” -Eckhart Tolle  This can be so hard to do. Most times, rather than accepting things, we fight them and react to them. Accepting doesn’t mean you have to agree with the situation, but…

Control

We all want to be in control all the time right? We want things to go our way or not at all. The reality, however, is that life does not work that way. Having control is not something we get to choose. You either have it, or you don't. The good news is that you…

What over how

Life is so confusing. Just figuring out what we want is a challenge, especially because it can and likely will change over the years. Then, we make it even more complicated by trying to control how to get what we want. However, the how is not important. The how will happen naturally if you let…

Assumptions

You’ve heard the saying, don’t assume anything because it makes an ass of you and me, right? This is easier said than done. I have a bad habit of assuming what people think of me. I assume that people think I am incapable and ill equipped to do many things. I assume that people think…